Posts by Felecity W.

    My hair goes to the top of my butt, and I get TONS of compliments from guys. Girls are usually surprised at how healthy and long it is but I don't know if they like it as much as guys do. Happy

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    Sounds to me like he's already moved on...He's just allowing you to stick around as a f*** buddy most likely. Why else would he act the way he does? Keeping secrets and not msging you first is a HUGE sign. On top of that he's having girls over! WHAT! Why are you still with that loser?
    I once was dating a guy who was cheating on me(But he was "Perfect" according to everyone)...he acted the same way basically...we broke up and I moved on to someone who everyone thought would break my heart. I didn't think he would and now we have been married 2 years. Trust yourself! No-one else has the instincts you do. If you have suspicions it's probably for a reason. You see the side of him no-one else does. Don't care what people will think just take care of yourself. Don't waste your life with someone that doesn't respect or love you.
    Ditto on the getting tested. Good luck~

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    This must be why I haven't been getting sick lately! I've had to cut down on my sugar and caffeine because of cysts, eww. Happy

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    Sent Gypsie Moon her package today!

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    It's a tie between my living room and bedroom. The living room has my books, pictures, and projects. My bedroom has my day of the day paintings and a brand new mattress so it is currently winning. Happy

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    Are you the only member of your family/friends that lives in the town you do? When I moved to a new state (to get married) I lost all connections I had, it sucked. This is when I didn't have a job and drove my hubby crazy Happy Once I started building my own network we stopped bickering. It wasn't "fighting" it was just TOO MUCH time together.
    Honestly though, I think we do have a really good marriage. I think this is because we are honest and talk with each other. When I am mad or upset I tell him and don't wait for him to figure it out. Same with him. Guys are clueless when it comes to reading a girl's emotions and I am NOT patient.
    If you do suspect he is cheating and have proof, my advice is to leave him. People don't change in my opinion, and if a guy thinks it's ok the first time and forgiveness is a possibility what's to say there won't be a second time. You deserve someone willing to invest all their love in you.

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    I agree with Oddbreed. Def. get out of the house and have your own life. When I moved in with my hubby I didn't have a job, consequently he was the only person I really got to interact with. I drove him CRAZY! I was STARVED for human interaction. If you can't find a job, go volunteer, animal shelters always need help. Regardless of what happens with your relationships it sounds to me like you def. need to start having your own life. Once I got a job our relationship got better cause at the end of the day when he's tired so am I and just sitting quietly watching TV sounds really nice.
    Side note no girl should ever stay the night when your out. Regardless what he says that's a load of crap. I have NEVER had a slumber party with a guy that was "just" a friend. He is def. hiding something. He may just be hiding the fact that you are needy because your home alone and he is thinking about pursuing another relationship where the girl has something to offer...example new experiences and stuff that happens when you leave the house.
    Good luck. Hope everything works out.

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    I had this problem when I moved from a big city to a small town. In the city colored hair and piercings are more common so nobody pays attention. HUGE change. I don't get the distrustful thing as much as random old guys making sexual remarks. Once it happened while I was in the Dollar store getting craft stuff. This man around 65 brushed up against me in passing and said something very offensive so I said "Get the fuck away from me!" apparently my voice projects, and he took off while everyone turned to look at him. I don't usually cuss, but it's disgusting how men think that just because your a young woman they can say whatever they want to you. That is one time you should speak up and not care what people think!

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    If a craft swap gets set up, can we pick who we want to swap based on what we have access to?

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    I will be doing the swap with Gypsie Moon as my Vet.

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    I would like to do a swap! I haven't done one yet, but have alot of experience shipping stuff across America. So I know the importance of postage and patience!

    CO+K Name: FelecityW
    Location: Kansas
    Can you ship internationally? Not this time.

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    Wow...according to modcloth, I have big boobs! haha That's funny...Seriously though I'm a size 2 and my chest is bigger than 32 inches...Was it a children's size?!

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    Oh wow...poor kid but your sister sounds like maybe they weren't a good fit.
    Something I don't think prospective adoptive families realize is that not only do you have to fit in the kids life, they have to fit in yours. As selfish and horrible as it sounds it's true. My lil sister was actually adopted by another family before we adopted her. We were her foster family since she was 6 weeks though and the family that adopted her was taking the whole set of children so it seemed like a good idea. Once it fell through we realized that she was meant to be with our family. 3 years later she is fine.

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    I should clarify my adopted sibs were from foster care and were abused and neglected so it's insane to try to spank them or use conventional methods...That's why my parents have to be creative in discipline and take away privileges and stuff like that..Not because they are making up for them being adopted, but because some disciplinary tactics trigger a regression...This is why my mom was being "lazy" cause sometimes old fashioned child rearing doesn't work. So I try to keep this in mind when I see bratty kids screaming their heads off, cause you never know why their parents aren't parenting they way you want them to. haha

    Def. reading everyone's stories gives perspective on the people you have to deal with.

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    Good luck on quitting! Not only is it good for you but also your daughter. When kids are exposed to second hand smoke they are at an increased risk for bursting eardrums(painful), Water in the ear canal, asthma, inability to fulfill mental or physical potential, ect.. Maybe that can help motivate you..Just don't give up..Maybe give your smokes and lighters to someone else so you will have to ask for them back..This helped my husband anyway, and sunflower seeds Happy Also take it slowly..It takes at least 30days to form a habit and it's silly to think you can break it in less time.

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