Knittin' Kitten
I'm new to this whole bra shopping thing, but I'm having a similar problem. I seem to be a 36D now, even though my boobs don't look that big. If I get a C, it doesn't cover me properly. But last night I borrowed my friend's which was a 34DD and it fit fine. Hmm!
My friend Lizzie has problems because she's TINY, like a size 0 and she has C cup boobs. She looks amazing but she can never get clothes in her size.
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Eurgh no, I'd be freaked out. I wouldn't want anyone to get my name tattooed on them, no matter how long I'd been with them. Like other people have said, symbols aren't too bad, but names are different.
Yeah, he probably should get it covered up haha. It's not nice to date someone who has another girl's name on him.
I was just pointing out that crafts are different things to different people, so some people do focus on hair and makeup as crafts.
But anyway, they're obviously sorting it out, I just know I'd hate if I worked my arse off and came on to people complaining about everything.
Umm, adblockers people. It takes like two minutes to download.
And Zina, what you think is interesting isn't interesting for other people. If I saw an advert for a printer I'd think "What the hell? Why do I need that?" Maybe some people want to buy hair products and makeup. Sorry, but the site isn't tailor made for you.
And like Cat said, I don't know if you know anything about websites but you don't get to choose which adverts you get. Without those adverts the site couldn't run. It's just Cat and Tom doing it, and they both have full time jobs and only run this site out of the kindness of their hearts. I think we all need to take a second and actually thank them for that instead of complain about every little thing that goes wrong.
Remember guys, it's only the internet ;)
I get that all the time - most girlfriends don't trust me around their boyfriends, which pisses me off because I wouldn't do anything, and I have a boyfriend anyway!
It sucks but at the end of the day, you can't be friends with someone it's a constant battle with. It sounds harsh but if he's in this incredibly destructive relationship, you kinda have to leave him to it. You can be there to pick up the pieces if/when it finishes, but if it's causing you stress to be friends with him, I'd just leave it.
I've had a similar situation recently where I've received threats from a girl because I chat to her boyfriend at work - she hacked into his Facebook, sent me abusive messages then deleted me, then memorised my number so if I text him she'll know. She keeps pretending to be him and flirting with me to see if I'll flirt back. And I just can't be arsed any more. He's not happy with her but he's not gonna do anything about it and I'm not risking getting hurt. ESPECIALLY now he's started using me as a scapegoat - I didn't talk to him for two weeks, then out of the blue got a text saying "Please leave me alone, I'm not interested." Apparently he's been telling her that I'm still talking to him! So I just told him to delete my number and not get in contact with me any more.
If I was like that I just wouldn't get into a relationship with anyone. If you're that jealous, you're not happy, and you're making someone else miserable. I know where people are coming from, I've been cheated on quite a few times but you can't lump everyone in together. I'm glad that me and my boyfriend trust each other - obviously it's not implicit, and we get jealous and sometimes remind each other in a jokey way "You'd better not sleep with him/her or I'll kill you!" but we're a lot happier this way.
So this is the new rant thread =P
A lot of the time when I talk, people clearly aren't listening, or they just talk over me. I know not everything I say is thrilling, but I'm starting to feel invisible.
It's my friend's wedding on Saturday and I have only tomorrow to get a present for her and her hubby!
My budget is £35 so I'm thinking a wedding hamper would a nice idea (£5 on basket, £30 on stuff to go in it?). I'm great at shopping on a budget and making it looks like loads.
Here are some ideas I have for going in the basket -
Candles
Chocolates
Ann Summers stuff
Photo album/frame
Wine
Bath stuff
Wine glasses
Sheep/motorcycle (she likes sheep, he likes bikes)
Love sweets/Hersheys kisses
Disposable camera (for the honeymoon)
Pocket bible (both very religious)
Any other ideas? I'm gonna have a look round town and will see what I can get for the price.
Oh I've had the bleach thing - when I was going from black to blonde, I paid tons to get it done at the hairdressers, and it went so very, very orange.
A little while later I dyed a streak of my hair black, and then when I tried to bleach it so I could dye all of my hair pink, it just went brown. And stayed brown. For AGES. The only thing that FINALLY got rid of it was dying my whole head dark purple.
I've had sooo many hair fail stories.
Behold - The Crafty Superstar!
My writing seems to be going okay =) I've done a few things for Snippets now and Cat is still asking me to do more, so obviously my aspirations to become a journalist aren't totally unfounded!
I know what you mean. I'm 19 and I've always hated people my own age. My best friends are all older and I've always dated older men. It really upsets me when I try to help something and they see a teenager near them and freak out.
I'm no model citizen, I lost my virginity at 13, I smoke and drink and take drugs, but I would never hurt or threaten anyone, I'm not rowdy, I try to help people all the time and do charity work, but I'm still looked down on for my age.
Aargh I fucking hate drama.
So there's this guy I was friends with last year, who got really obsessed with me and kept trying to get with me and was telling people we were together even though I have a boyfriend. A little while later he slept with this girl and a few days later she found out she had an STI. That's all I know and all me and another girl told our friend. But of course it's come back to him that I'm saying he gave her it.
So his retaliation? He's telling everyone that we slept together while I was with Andy. And I don't know if he's gone insane or what but he was talking to me like we HAD - calling me a skanky whore and threatening to tell Andy, and when I said there was nothing to tell he was like "Yeah, sure, we both know what you did", which you can't really say anything to. So obviously I've blocked him now but it really upsets me that he's telling people this and trying to ruin my relationship, which is going really well!
And I'm trying to resist the urge to beat the shit out of him. It's a long time since I got violent with anyone, I try to control that part of me, but no one calls me a whore for no reason.
So the only reasons he's saying this are
1) He's insane and believes it happened
2) He's making it up to piss me off and maybe had someone sat next to him that he had to prove it to
3) That one time he stayed over mine he raped me while I was unconscious
I'm just so freaked out by this, it's so absurd!
Dessah, how did you manage that?!
Since my breast augmentation, I've obviously gone up in clothes, but not by a lot. I've always been about size ten/twelve (UK) around the waist, but now I'm having to wear size 14 tops to make room. It's stupid, but that I can deal with. Today I went to H&M and tried on a size 14 dress - went easily around my body but nowhere near my chest. Size 16? Almost. I'm sorry, but it's ridiculous when someone with C/D cup breasts counts as a size 18. They just design clothes for girls with boy figures - and it's fine if you have that, but they shouldn't. Fashion industries design clothes for skinny women and then just multiply the fabric for bigger women, but it doesn't work like that - you need to add in extra room for curves! It's just annoying because now I have no idea what size I am, and I don't even have particularly big breasts.
...and I can hear Lauren downstairs now complaining to Andy about it, and he's telling her that he didn't realise where it was she wanted picking up from cause he would have gladly done that, which is total bullshit because I told him exactly where it was and he said he didn't want to.
And some guy who used to like me is telling everyone that I slept with him while with Andy. I can't handle this much drama!
Jesus, I'm the ones on meds in my house and sometimes I feel like I'm the only sane one! Lizzie's constantly angry at someone or something, so we're always on edge. Lauren, I'm sure, is verging on hypomania and is now super pissed off with everyone for not coming to meet her walk back from Aikido, even though it's a perfectly safe walk and she used to make me walk home alone down dodgy alleyways when I was drunk at 2am. Andy is either angry or too laid back for his own good. And Jake acts okay but I'm sure it's because he's just really, really repressing everything.
I'm meant to be the crazy one but I feel like everyone around me is just nuts!