Thanks Shona. I can handle little sexist jokes - like how many times do we go "Oh, men!" - but that just isn't right.
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There's a Facebook group that I'm trying to get rid of by getting a million people to report:
"Why do girls bitch about boys on facebook , when they should be washing up."
Can be found here: http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=186244547181&ref=mf
It's not that I don't have a sense of humour, the name made me laugh at first. But if you go on it, there are pictures promoting domestic abuse. It's disgusting - including a woman badly beaten up with the caption "Some women don't know when to shut up"
Please can everyone who has a Facebook report this group and the photos?
I know, I just miss him =(
MORE MOANING. I've barely seen Andy in days. Last Friday I stayed over his and we had a great night together. On Sunday he came over for four and a half hours, four of which he played Arkham Asylum. Tuesday I helped him out with some filming so we barely talked then. Last night he came over at midnight for an hour (literally came over, had sex, cigarette, left) and today he invited me over to sit around while he does work. None of this I mind, I know he's busy, he has a massive essay due in tomorrow and he's making a film too, it's lots, but I miss him. So on Tuesday I asked if he was doing anything tomorrow (Friday) and he said no he's completely free in the evening, and I said I'd spoil him and cook him dinner and stuff. Went out today and bought all the ingredients, some beer, some popcorn, was gonna rent a movie. Then while I'm over earlier, he asks Adam right in front of me if they can do filming tomorrow night. So now I might get to see him but not till late, and I can't cook him dinner which means I spent a ton of money for nothing. It's not his fault he has work to do...and I know it's only because he's not used to having a girlfriend and having to consider someone else, but it's just a bit annoying.
I've been trying to track down my first proper boyfriend, the guy I lost my virginity to, for a while now because I was worried he was in prison or dead. Turns out he's blocked me on Facebook so I can't get into contact with him. His best friend accepted me on Facebook and I've sent him messages asking why Dave doesn't want to talk to me but he won't reply. It just makes me feel so crap, I don't know why he'd go out of his way to get me out of his life like that...we haven't talked in years but it's not like we had a fight or anything. I just want to stay friends with the guy I first slept with, you know? I've never regretted that it was him, even though he's such a horrible person, but now I wish it had been someone I could at least be civil with.
I hate being like this. I know I'm making Andy feel bad and it's not his fault. I just totally can't bear to be alone at all right now. He doesn't have to want to be with me all the time, but I wish he did. My best friend just tried to sleep with me, and she's totally beautiful and I said no because of him, because I'd rather have a cuddle from him than sleep with anyone else. And I don't want to make him feel bad but he said he'd come see me tonight and he isn't going to. And apparently he doesn't sleep well when I'm there which makes me feel like shit, cause I only sleep well when he's next to me. I just need him to look after me so bad. I fucking hate Tim for making me like this.
Oh what I loved was when people would steal stuff and try to return it, and it like has a big hole where the tag should be and a bit of the metal still in it, and we're like "Umm, no, this is really obviously stolen, we'll take that back thanks"
You should ask your husband to go outside to smoke, if he doesn't already. It's good that he's supporting you though.
I smoke but I don't seem to get addicted, which is weird. I've probably been smoking for about two years now, mainly because of my last boyfriend, and I can easily smoke twenty in a day then not have any for a week without any cravings, which I guess just makes me lucky! But I know people who have quit and I appreciate it must be really hard. Just DON'T turn into an annoying ex-smoker, they're the worst. When my last boyfriend's brother quit, he made us smoke in the kitchen, which is fine, but then when we came back in he'd go "Are you done filling your body with that poison now?!" and it was just like, fuck off Jem, you smoked for ten years. In fact when I started going out with Tim I didn't really smoke so he and his mum made the effort not to smoke around me, whereas Jem didn't. As Bill Hicks says, "Any ex-smokers? I'd quit, if I wasn't so fucking terrified I'd turn into one of you"
Oh when I worked at Evans we just told them that it was the price it came up as on the till. Unless it was in an offer, in which case it sometimes went wrong, but we were told at the beginning of every shift what was on offer and what wasn't. If someone said something was labelled wrong, we'd just say "Sorry, I can't change the price, I don't have the power to do it" and then just ask if they still want it or not. Sometimes people got really annoyed about it but mostly they just dealt.
There's an important legal thing to remember - in terms of the contract of buying things in shops, the customer is asking you to sell them an object. The shop is not asking the customer to buy it. So it's up to the shop whether they sell it, how much it is etc. The customer can't do anything but kick up a fuss.
I'm meeting Andy's parents tomorrow, and I'm terrified. I thought I had like another month to prepare for this =( apparently they're nice though, so hopefully it'll be okay. But it's at like 12:30 so I'm gonna be really tired from having to get up early!
Haha that's so weird.
Yeah Laurel, it's just guys have such mixed feelings about it! The first time a guy proposed it I freaked out. And then I got used to it, but Tim wouldn't go anywhere near me when I was on (although he barely went near me anyway). And I guess I expected Andy to be funny about it but he was okay actually, and was up for it, which was nice!
Haha that was an awesome ad =P
I should only have like another day on now, so that's good.
What are you guys like with sex and periods? How do you feel about it?
As with anything you need to look into it. I got everything explained to me by a very nice lady when I got mine so I know all about the side effects and risks and things. You also need to get regular checks to make sure it's still healthy for you
As with anything you need to look into it. I got everything explained to me by a very nice lady when I got mine so I know all about the side effects and risks and things. You also need to get regular checks to make sure it's still healthy for you
How old are you Jessica? If you don't mind me asking =)
I get on with the pill, and I'd definitely rather get it than the alternatives - I know someone who is now infertile because of the coil, and I hate the implant thing, it's horrible, you can feel it in your arm!
Well it works for me. That or I'm infertile, because me and Tim were together for 18 months and for about 15 months of that our only protection was the pill, and it wasn't a problem. Everyone's individual, stuff just reacts different ways with different bodies.