MEN!

He said that he blocked her about two weeks ago, but apparently that was a lie. He deleted his FB account after he found out I was upset, I don't know why. He keeps texting and calling me, but I won't answer. In a few of his texts it sounded as if they've been talking to each other, too! He said that she had said that she doesn't want "their friendship" to come between him and me. What that hell does that mean? Their "friendship." I thought he was avoiding her. At least that's what he told me.

Awww...Kiddo I'm sorry to hear that...

you need to say something to him...for real...just sit down and talk to him...write it out or whatever you need to do...you need to VENT!!

I agree

I'm not sure what to do right now. I'm not as angry as I was, but I'm still not ready for a conversation. He got really sick last night and I thought he was going to have to go to the hospital. After I was sure he was okay I just went back to ignoring the "do you want to see me anymore" texts. I'm just kinda numb right now.

Yeah....I suggest you write it all out...all the feelings everything....I do it when I'm feeling all mixed up...it helps me organize my thoughts.

you deserve the best there is and one day he will show up

I gave up on men and then I met my boyfriend

I had to let him go yesterday. His awful, evil ex-girlfriend posted a wall post on his wall on Facebook about how I was stealing her best friend. I was livid!!! I told him that he may not want to get back with her, but deep down emotionally he's holding on to some false belief that there was anything at all positive about their relationship when there wasn't. I told him that I can't be with him when he's in any way associated with someone like her. She is a terrible person. She took tens of thousands of dollars from him (he's currently paying for her school, too). His only source of income is from disability he gets for depression. How can you take money from someone so vulnerable, especially when they want to go back to school themselves! She cheated on him for 3 years before he found out. He said today that he can't block her from his FB page. I told him that he COULD he just wouldn't. He said yesterday that he told her not to talk to him anymore, but I don't believe it for one second especially since he won't block her on FB. He says that he wants to move on, but he doesn't.

oh yeah, he doesn't. He is in denaile...or he is dependent on this person. he needs this person...sad. You need to be stronger buddy and kick the B*tch to the curb. He needs stronger people aound him

My man just came home (1.40 am), to drunk to talk, even though he had said that we were going to watch movies and take it easy. He called me 9 pm and said that he was going to stay out because "he had such a good time".

Don't get me wrong, I don't deny him to have fun, it's just that it's not the first time that he has prioritized staying out drinking before being with me when we have decided something.

It makes me kinda sad, I have to say >___<

I hate that, its like breaking a promise

Exactly! I mean.. I trust him not to cheat, cause I know he would never do that, but when he's acting like this, how am I supposed to trust him?

Maybe I'm overreacting, but it's hard being sane when your angry, and feelings aren't always logical.

I like a boy....and he is ALWAYS hanging out with his friends....I think he has TOO MANY friends...they are all out of state, in state...all over the darn place....said boy...told me he'd take me out....it is yet to happen...I don't know what to do...I like him...he likes me...A LOT....I feel like I should give the boy a chance...he wants to date me...but....i told him he will have to make time for me...if he can't...then well...he can't.

If he wants to date he WILL make time for you! Don't sit around and wait on him, KT. It sounds like he's really into his friends right now. If I were you, I'd go on about my business and if he's truly interested he'll come to you. A good guy friend let me know that if a guy is interested in you they'll MAKE time for you. "He's Just Not Into You" is a great book to read. I'm not saying he's not into you, it's just a great book to have on hand in questionable guy situations. I've waited on way too many guys and never once was it worth it. They should be waiting on you because you're worth it!

Elin, watch out for the drinking thing because it sounds like a habit. Your BF could be an alcoholic. At the very least he's a binge drinker. In a way he is cheating on you, just with a bottle. Trust me, I've been there more than once . . . And it always ends badly. You're not overreacting in the least!

Thanks kiddo, I'll definitely have a talk with him about it. Since I was writing under the influence (of anger), I might have exaggerated his state of drunkeness when he came home. Nevertheless, it makes me feel bad, and he should consider my feelings too, not only serve his own interests.

Today, however, everything feels okay. I think he's kinda shameful. Serves him right ^____^

That's just it...I haven't been waiting on him...he left for like a whole month because of his buddies and i was like...ok, whatever...then he comes back and he's all like i'm back...and I WILL MAKE TIME FOR YOU...blah blah blah...and i'm like if you want this to work you will HAVE to make time for me...and I even told him I don't think he can do it. So...we will see.

As for your situation Kiddo...I think it's good that you let him go...I mean...he doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve to be treated like that. You can do better!