MEN!

Heh, maybe. He's just never been emotional. I just wish this wasn't all coming now, when I'm about to leave, 'cause at this point I don't think I'm going to miss him that much =(

hug, I know it can be fusterating

awwww *hug*

whatever happens....I know you are a strong woman and will make it through it!

Sorry hun, I knew a friend who went through something similar. He worked in a upscale men's suit store and he would flirt with the women clients and take them out to dinner. ( He says he does it to keep the clients, but there is always that fine line) Even so, it's disrespectful. They shouldn't have to flirt to keep clients, if they were really good at what they do the clients will stick around out of loyalty. Not because some guy flirts with them. If he is openminded, keep talking to him about it, tell him how you feel. Try to put it in perspective. >_> it took my hubby 3 years of training (before we were married) LOL but know he understands everything. Relationships are full of compromises, give and takes, and arguements. It's only human to feel.

Thanks guys x

Thanks guys x

we are always here for u

you don't sound like being unfair to him at all! I mean you're prottecting him a lot!
Maybe you should just ask him if he wants you to break up? When he says that there's nothing wrong with the relation ship, but there's something wrong with you, can he tell you what's wrong then?
I mean, actually you just want your relationship to be like it had been before? But something prevents him from cuddling you etc. So what are his reasons?
If you really think, that he want's you to break up, and that he lost interest, you should really take a time out (what you'll do when you go to uni...) and show him that you don't need him.
Don't you have your own friends you could do something with? You'll get your own friends and time off when you're at uni, and I think things will sort out on their own. You'll have a whole new life and things will change. Either he'll find you interesting again and has to make an effort, or you're probably better off without him and can concentrate on establishing your new life, think about what you deserve and what kind of relationship you want?
Don't worry, just don't try to keep him at any cost, that won't impress him, i'm afraid.

my boyfriend just spilled his pop all over my new oeganizer

Ever feel like there's just one person who you could TOTALLY spend the rest of your life with.....


but you CAN'T HAVE THEM!?


.....yeah....I've felt that for the past like 2 1/2 years....seriously...why is he WITH HER!?

The problem is, when I say there's a problem with our relationship, he turns it into an attack against me. And quite often brings up stuff from my past which he knows will make me cry so I'll stop arguing with him. And I don't like that he tries to manipulate my emotions like that.
I don't really have my own friends. Before I met him I hung out with girls from school and college but never really fit in with them, and various guys that only really hung out with me because they wanted to sleep with me. So I've lost contact with most of those guys and I've never been interested in the girls. But Tim's friends are my friends as well now - I love all of them. I don't think I'd lose them if we broke up but it means that I don't really have anyone to talk to because I don't feel right complaining about him to them. Even though he does it about me. But yeah, I'll hopefully get more friends at uni.
I'm not sure what's gonna happen...I just really wanted to go out on a big thing with us together, so I know he loves me. That way I'll feel secure when I go away. But he was slightly nicer last night, tomorrow when I see him we've got friends over and watching football so not very intimate, and on Friday again we'll have friends over. I'm sure he'll be lovely when I actually leave on Saturday morning but is that enough? Is it okay that he can be horrible for two weeks then nice once and everything's okay? How is that a stable, healthy relationship?

I don't think that is a stable relationship, I know it is hard sometimes. But in the end its up to you.

I don't think that is a stable relationship, I know it is hard sometimes. But in the end its up to you.

KK...sounds a lot like what i'm going through with some guy I like right now....

he can ignore me for like 2 weeks, then come back and be all like...I MISSED YOU...blah blah blah...

it's really stressful...and all I can say is...as much as you want to hold on...you're putting your body through a crazy amount of stress...

I love you and I think we all do here...so just...make the choice that's best for you...

because every girl is different...

Why are boys so silly =(