MEN!

Courtney...trust me...if a guy likes you...being a good girlfriend (flirting or what not) won't matter to him. He will think you are a good girlfriend no matter what! Give it a try!

As long as you don't cheat on him or ignore him or any of those other things then that makes you a good girlfriend in my books, so you honestly don't need to worry about that

Hey, ask yourself: are there good or bad boyfriends as long as you're in love? I don't think so...
You'll end up in a vicious circle continuing with these thoughts... We all know this.
Just tell him. Worst that can happen is he telling you, that you're not his type. Then you'll have to get over him anyway, but this will take you less time than now, when your thoughts are turning...
Just stop doubting yourself! A guy who doesn't like you the way you are anyway isn't worth it. But maybe he likes you exactly because you're that weird girl...

Irma has good points, trust yourself

*sigh* I guess...

Maybe he just needs a change of pace....maybe he's tired of liking Generic Girl(tm)

Even if a guy says he likes a certain type of girl...doesn't mean he does. Some guys just say that to impress others. Also....for most guys your age...it would be hard for them to look at any girl and not like her. I'd say give it a chance...it wouldn't hurt anything to try...if anything, you'll learn something from it and so will he!

Okay, so this guy isn't my actual boyfriend. But he's been my best friend since we met 8 years ago, and I've always been completely in love with him. The only reason we aren't together - well before now hahaha - is because he's in 'Bama and 10 hours away from me! But he knows how I feel about him, which is why what he did is so CRAP! Yesterday he called me around 10 a.m. - and I always light up when i hear from him - am always so excited. So imagine how I felt when he told me all about this WONDERFUL threesome he had at some stupid party over the holiday weekend!! Like I wanted to know!!? Why would he even tell me that???? Is he BLIND or does he just not care???? Idiot!!!

I didn't know what to do except cry, be depressed, get mad.... and today i thought i was over it... but i guess i'm not. I poured my heart out to him in an e-mail yesterday, and I guess i'm just really anxious to see how he takes it. If he cares - if it turns out i was just a plaything all along.... I feel so stupid! RAWR!!!

what! ewwwwwwww.

I would be so mad too!

Wow...that's pretty bad Gypsie...I totally know how you feel...(except i've never been told about a 3some)...but I did fall head over heels for a guy I couldn't have because he loved some other chick...and he KNEW I liked him...and still talked to me about HER alllll the time...

It's hard not to get jealous...and it's hard to keep your emotions in check

Gypsie!! Thats terrible!!

I would be so mad, too!!

Off topic man rant! I hate liars! I was told by him that he blocked his ex on facebook, but I just logged on and saw a freaking half a page back and forth between them! It was the first thing I saw to beat everything! They could've PM'ed for God's sake! I didn't read it. I was just pissed that he had lied because he blocked her, right? I just saw her little "I'm trying to be sexy" pic about a dozen times in between his pic as they commented back and forth! Man I'm mad!

Wow! Kiddo...you have every right to be mad...that burns like a torch up the butt!!

Maybe there's a tiny chance that he blocked her after this / because of this?
I hate liars too! I dont care if my partner's cheating on me, I think this whole sex thing is overrated (patriarchal society... ) But I ask honesty and loyalty! I have to know what my partner wants and needs and if /why he/she misses something in the relationship. My ex-boyfriend always was on sex-chats and he lied about it all the time! And the worst, hurting lie he told me was that he had dentist appointment. Instead he had an appointment with his mom (some supernatural -laying- on -of -hands -healing- pseudo- psychologist) because he was so unhappy with our relationship. I'm still getting angry thinking of this!!!
But anyway, it's not about me now!
I'd calm down for the moment and then ask him and tell him that you didn't read what they wrote, but that you have to know where he stands in your relationship! Otherwise you can't trust him, that's stressful and sooner or later love-killing.

men, I think emotional cheating is worst

exactly!!!