MEN!

My guy friend (FRIEND) asked me to see a movie and go see a play in the same week. So now I'm going to see the Brother's Grimm play (which I'm really excited about, don't get me wrong) tomorrow and next weekend I'm going to see Wolverine.

But...I think he still likes me. Which is wierd, because he goes to a public school and theres got to be WAY more hotter girls than me...bleh. I don't want our friendship to be awkward, because he's a great friend and I love hanging out with him, but I just don't want to have to like, reject him or something like that.

hmmm, that is hard. You like him as a friend and don't want to ruin the friendship and his feelings....

Yeah...I don't know how to hint that we're JUST FRIENDS.

Just tell him you are just friends...if he's a true friend he'll respect you for being honest. If he really likes you he'll stick around. If you don't tell him and he continues to think about you more and more, he may feel mislead. Just be honest is all.

Yeah, I mean if he brings up dating or anything , I'll be like "yeah I don't like anyone" and make it clear that he's a friend. If not, then I just won't send out those signals or anything.
He knows I'm single and everything so I just hope he doesnt ask me out.

sigh, relationships can be tricky

yeah...I went to the play tonight, and it was actually really fun, no awkwardness.

People did keep asking us "oh are you going out?" "oh...you're courtney...."

but aside from that it was actually fun!

Is it sad that I'm kinda glad I'm single now? I mean, I miss him...but I am like...free to be who I want to be...it's weird. I am still talking to him..and he wants my friendship...but it's all just weird...I feel weird talking to him...but I'm not mad at him...it was mutual...I don't know!! ARGH!

you need a hug KT, so *hugs*

you will get it sorted, and nope its not sad to be glad. I guess it means you got what you needed, um like closeur. ok my spelling sucks, but I guess you get what I am saying

Yeah...it's just kind of sucky...because it was one of those "dream" relationships or whatever...like a fairytale...at first...

Oh geez, I'm back...

Okay, Tim has this friend who hadn't been around for a long time because he had a girlfriend who wouldn't let him go out at all. Dave ignored Tim every time Tim had any kind of problem, but when Dave broke up with his girlfriend, who does he go to? The only person who's too nice to tell him to fuck off, Tim! I don't like this friend because he's racist, sexist, homophobic, and when he's around Tim turns into someone I just don't recognise, but they're old friends so I tried really hard. But at a party Dave started groping me and trying to make out with me, which I was obviously pretty upset by, especially as this is the second of Tim's friends who has now groped me, but I didn't say anything to Dave cause I didn't want to cause a scene, then he and Tim made a joke about how Tim didn't want to sleep with me but Dave would which was the final straw for me, and I went downstairs. Tim came down and we had a big argument about it, but we agreed the next day that we'd just organise things so that I would never have to see Tim when Dave was round, which I thought we were both fine with.

Now Tim's bringing it up again and saying that it's not Dave's fault because I didn't make it obvious where my boundaries were. Sorry but aren't your oldest friend's girlfriend's boobs out of boundaries for ANYONE? And if it's my fault then I don't know, what does that make me, some kind of slut? Is that actually what he thinks about me? This is just hurting so much, he knows that I've been sexually abused so many times over the years and now he's saying this... And apparently I should give Dave another chance, but I can't help it if he's just someone I don't like! Even aside from the groping, he's not someone I want to be with and to be honest, it's caused me enough heartache to just be fine with Tim still being friends with him. And there are so many problems in our relationship right now that I did not need another one on top...

Wow Knittin' Kitten...I'm sorry you have to go through that!

I'm ready to move on..it's been like a month...I feel guilty, because I'm already ready to move on....

OMG, I wouldn't put up with that. Whip out a can of slap. What is with those guys, hello, you are their friends gf. I don't understand why some guys are like that.

and KT, I think you know when you are ready, so don't feel guilty. hugs.

Ugh, so my old best friend/ex -boyfriend is coming back home before he is deployed. He is expecting me to spend a four day with him even though we have been over for months. He says when he thinks of home he thinks of me and I should be there to see him since it could be my last time ever seeing him. I told him I wouldnt be there for him. He needs to familiarize himself with home again with out me in the picture because I am not going to be there anymore. I did not decide to join the military, I did not want our relationship to go into the hole because of long distance. He did it to himself! And now when I am in a relationship with someone I really love and want to be with he wants me to jeoperdize it. Like I did so foolishly before when he came back... Screw him if he is miserable it is his own fault for not moving on. He wasnt there for me when I needed him most.

good for you. Be strong, I had a ex boyfriend who tried that with me, but I was ready to move on. I can't help it if he hadn't