The Most Annoying Things to you that nobody ever takes into consideration...?

I totally understand what you mean, Courtney. People seem to be very ignorant of you, and I can tell. People in my class who haven't really talked to you say all sorts of stupid stuff, and I'm just like "Uhhhh, NO." It's really, really dumb.

it was the same way for me in high school, you learn to get a thick skin and ingnore then. I find those who talk about you really want to be like you.

Haha, people talk about me?

But yeah...I just wish I could put on a face. And I can't! :\

they just want to be you, you got style

they be hatin' on my SWAGGA
teehee

lol love you court

Malik - That's a beautiful name... and I can't believe people judge you like that, well I can believe it coz I get a lot of that here in London.
I wear what I can only think of calling "middle-of-the-range clothing", like just a top & jeans, "normal" stuff I suppose, like nothing fancy, I don't know how to explain it. People are shocked when I tell them I like rock music, they assume that I should look like an emo or a goth...

Violetta - You look like a druggie?? I'd never have thought that people would think that of you, you don't look like one to me. My friend works in a chemist and obv they get druggies quite a bit and they look NOTHING like what you do, they look more like chav's track suits, a guy with a shaven head and a girl who pulls their hair back in a high pony tail type thing. I could never live in a small town or village for that reason... it's so much more bitchy and gossipy. I live in a fairly big area and no-one gives a sh.it about anyone else, most of the time. My friend got taken the piss out of at our old school for being in a relationship with another girl though :S

What I hate is the stereotype of being fat, because I'm a larger than large girl I suppose. UK size 22, which is on the bigger size of plus size. But people assume that because I'm big I LOVE food and am always eating, it doesn't help because I am a lazy person, but that I'm unlovable and everything else.

Argh another assumption that I hate is that when I tell people I study Business & Psychology, they think that studying Psychology means I can read into people's mind. Since when are psychologists psychics????

Essex Debs you raise a good point... and I agree with you saying that being english speaking etc etc there are a lot of customs and language uses I don't agree with. I do not agree with, in upper middle and upper class english snobs thinking fox hunting is a sport. it is cruel and inhumane... we should see how they would like being chased by a pack of wolves or something... idk but its besides the point.

OMG Michelle you reminded me when you spoke about transgenders. My friend lives & goes to Uni in Liverpool now, when I went up and stayed with her, we went out one night and she introduced me to this transgender guy... OMG you just would not believe, his hair is lovely and long, shiny and silky... BLONDE has an amazing figure. The worst part was is that he had the most amazing legs I've ever seen. OMG I was soooo jelous, he makes a better girl then so many girls ive ever seen. He was amazing!!

ARGH just remembered another thing that I don't like people thinking about me, that just because I haven't got a boyfriend, they think I'm a lesbian or frigid!! Did they ever take into consideration that I just don't want to deal with all the hassle and emotional game playing that comes with not being single.

ooh I got that, an sweetie Plus size gals are numer one in my book! I am always trying to gain weight.

I hate it when people make assumptions that they can have a go if you don't smile 24-7. On Tuesday I went for a wonder round the market near my work and this bloke on one of the stall said "what are you looking so happy about?", another one I used to get when I was at school was 'smile it might never happen' or who died?'. I suffer with depression and these comments really get on my tits and sometimes they can really bring me down as it makes me feel that, although I thought I was doing really well and getting on with life people still aren't happy so whats the point.

nothing wrong with having a smile

Everything everyone is saying here is right,
and you really can'tplease anyone
or change whatthey think aboutyou
buty ou CAN put on a staright faceand continue doing what you love
and love what you do.


it wont matter 20 years from now,
you family.education. and skills will.
:] i hoope everyone's new years wishes come truee. and keeeeep on smiling

Yeah there is nothing wrong with being happy and smiling, the guy who had a go at you for smiling is probably a very insecure person. Like Lovette said, in 20 years time, non of it will matter, you will move in into new things in life. I know it's difficult when you are depressed, but you have to put yourself first and think about who's life you are living. You're living life for you so you do and say what you want without consideration to anyone else (unless its something mean). Those that moan at you for smiling are jelous of the happiness that you have, or the confidence to keep smiling in unhappy times.
Besides, we all <3 you

Thanks Michelle, it's nice to hear someone say that about larger ladies xxx

Oh he wasn't saying I was happy he was being sarcastic - sorry that doesn't translate in writing so I should have been clearer :/