Need a hug...but all alone

As you may or may not know, I don't live with my fiancé, we both live over an hour away with our own parents. Mine are out a lot during the day so I only see them at night. During the day I get so lonely and I just want a hug from my fiancé, but I can't because he's working and the cost and time too go see him just for that doesn't work out. 1/4 tank of petrol (in my car that's about 7-8L) or £20 train fair. I go to uni 2 days a week, I don't work because then I'd see my fiancé even less then 1-2 times a week (I've tried working, barely saw him for a month, not good). Where he works they have irregular shifts so we can't plan anything more then a month in advance. We can't move out as we don't have enough money because we are saving up for our wedding and a deposit for a house.
Long story but I just really want a hug from him and I can't Happy

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5 replies since 26th November 2011 • Last reply 26th November 2011

Reply #1:

Aww *hugs*

It's awful not being with the one you love. Maybe you can try to speak over the phone more often? Just hearing his voice more may help you to feel less alone.

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When I was dating my husband we lived over 700 miles apart! I only saw him maybe once a month...We would talk on the phone every night though, so I double RawrRawr's suggestion to talk on the phone. I have to say, we had much more meaningful conversations when we were apart and were able to really learn about each other verse just spending face time. Also the time apart makes you really appreciate what moments you do have together.
I know you don't want to work, but it sounds like if you were more busy you maybe wouldn't have as much time to miss him. I am sure you could volunteer somewhere that would be happy to take a few hours a week. Somewhere like nursing home, hospital, or shelter would keep you so busy you would forget to be lonely. Happy

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Reply #3:

sometimes things like this just cant be helped hopefully you'll be togther soon, phone calls and skype will help you stay in touch but all you can do is hang out with friends do volenteer work and wait

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Reply #4:

*internet hug*

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Reply #5:

Hello Darling,

I think talking on the phone is a swell idea. Hugging a teddy bear is a temporary alternative as well! I may be a bit of a romantic, but sending letters can be a good suprise when looking in the mail. With how advanced the internet is, you can find an online chat system like Skype. Dont worry, my dad has gone to war multiple times so know you are not alone. Make sure to keep in contact and cherish those moments with him.
*Happy Hugs!*

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