My dad wants me to get pregnant

Aw, well thats good. =) I'm sure that will fullfill their need, instead of stealin your babies. lol
about adoption: Exactly! I totally agree.

Another freaky thing, I told my mom I never want to give birth. So she said she'll be my surrogate mother x.x HELL THE F&%K NO. That's just sick.

Woah... that's a step too far in the wrong direction. No-one should be telling you to have kids and stuff. If you want kids one day then fine, if you don't then that's also fine, no-one should EVER tell you how to live your life, it's yours and yours alone!!

Sorry, what the hell does it have to do with him?! It's your damn body and your damn life! Your sister is being selfish for going on birth control?! What a load of @#~&*%$£^&@~}{+_. Sorry but he's mad.

Sorry, what the hell does it have to do with him?! It's your damn body and your damn life! Your sister is being selfish for going on birth control?! What a load of @#~&*%$£^&@~}{+_. Sorry but he's mad.

Tell your dad to adopt his own baby! That way, he can deal with all the screaming, drooling, and pooping so you don't have to die.

Never die to make a man happy. It isn't worth it.

Having a baby this young is not smart you will be grounded for 18 years and longer sometimes...enjoy life finish school then when your ready have a baby but see the world and do things you love first.

Oh, i wish my dad was like yours. I'm turning 21 in a few months and my parents still want me to remain single and enjoy life (which they don't really let me do :<)

I cannot believe what I'm reading! What kind of parent would want their child to have a child for them...SELFISH and not a very good parent in my eyes. Miss Circus, you are in my prayers NOT to listen to your father, what is wrong with him? Why would a father jeopardize life of his child? RED FLAG! He is nuts!
Is your mother alive?

I am 21 and pregnant. While I am happy married for 3 years now neither one of us were ready for this baby. while we are happy to have this blessing the time isn't great . Having a child is a huge life change and so many people take it lightly. Your father should know this. you should tell him to become a "big brother" or "grandfather" there is many programs out there for adopting grand kids.

This is absolutely awful..I can't believe that your father would want to endanger your life like that! I'm so sorry...he has no right to be angry with you, I hope that everything turns out alright.

My future mother-in-law was talking to my boyfriend the other day about grandchildren. & I'm like WOAH WOAH WOAH!
Because, whereas we both like the idea of having kids one day, we aren't sure that we'll actually like being parents. So we'll probably never even have kids.

Plus, we're both still in college & not married yet. This is no time for baby talk! ;P

I think it's crazy that your dad wants you to have a kid so much. My mom would have put my boyfriend in the grave if I'd gotten pregnant at your age. She would have probably killed me too except for that thing in my womb.
I hope you can make your dad understand that it just isn't a good idea in any way, shape, or form. Especially with your medical history. <3

I have three grown-up children. They are 31, 28 and 26 years old. I told them when they were teenagers to wait until they were older and had experience of looking after themselves before even thinking of having children. My eldest has a 4 year old child and as much as I adore her it was my daughter's choice to have a child with her then, partner of three years, even though I thought she should wait. He abandoned her when the baby was not quite a year old and has treated them both very badly since. It should be your own decision to have children and any parent who tries to push their children into starting a family is doing so with their own selfish reasons. If they want to look after a small child again then they should adopt a child of their own - there are many children without a family waiting to be loved and cared for - not pressure their children into starting a family. Live your own life, reach for the stars and be the best you can, there's plenty of time for children later.

My daughter has ovarian cysts and was told she wouldn't be able to have children. My grandson Jayce is 6 weeks old today. They kept an eye on her cysts throughout her pregnancy and she went full term.