first kiss?

well remeber girls are more grown up then guys

i turn 15 in feb and i've never been kissed
i'm at an all girls school though so it's sorta hard to find nice guys
although i suspect most guys my age are completely immature hormonal gorillas so i'm not sure i wanna kiss one of em...

i turn 15 in feb and i've never been kissed
i'm at an all girls school though so it's sorta hard to find nice guys
although i suspect most guys my age are completely immature hormonal gorillas so i'm not sure i wanna kiss one of em...

suzi, this guy totally likes you! for real! i'm jealous haha he's just saying bad things to get your attention i think.. otherwise he just wouldnt bother! it sounds like you enjoy his company and flirting, so i dont know what you'd want to do next but you guys sound like you have a lot in common and would have fun together, even if dating didnt work out you could be great friends! i dont mind you going off topic.. its nice to hear other people's experiences of dating (because, anythings better than me moaning about boys!!)

i agree sunkissed.. its hard to find nice guys anywhere haha, guys can definitely be immature rather a lot! there must be SOME nice ones out there, i hope...!

oh god.
my first kiss.
It was like 4 months ago or something, I was 15, almost 16.
I knew him from the internet (stupid, i know) and we liked each other. really, everyday we had very very long conversations etc.
so we decided we wanted to meet each other, so he came to my city, we went shopping a little, and at the time he had to go home. we were standing on the train station and he kissed me.
a first I sort of liked it. but then he went to a wrestling match. not fun.
and now I almost haven't said a word to him since the kiss...

I now want that I waited a bit, so I could get the first kiss from a boy I really really love.
no matter what all those stupid people are saying at school.

i really don't know if D. likes me. i really don't. but the problem is, i can't just ask him! if i do, and he's doing this for bad reasons, he and the rest of the class will have something to pick on me with for the next 2 and a half years of school. and since they still tease me with my hugbuddy when we were like, 3? (we're in the same class again now, and he's actually a genuinely good guy. shame he's well....not goodlooking. he's chubby with a chubby happy face. kinda. but real nice. i just would never fall for him. otherwise he'd probably be good boyfriend material...if only he'd look better!). so if i'd ask D. if he likes me...well....school life would be hell.but it would get less and less worse with time, but still be worse than it is now i think unless he actually did like me, than it would be nice^^ real nice(i think^.^).
i truly hope you girls never, ever get a dating experience as awful as my movie with lame guy thing. it sucks. and it blew my selfconfidence for months. stupid? yes. true? more yes. thank god, my friends got me trough. thank you for that v., e(lekker bezig rood), cake and k(kleintje^^). nope again not saying full names. not sure if they'd like that=P.
the whole guys are more immature thing: the funny thing is, my big brother in 6th grade actually says, the girls in his class are to immature! allways playing with their phone...
i laughed hard when he told me that.
and the thing is...
sometimes my bro says true things. like once he told me, if i'd think any guy was good enough, i'd allready have a boyfriend. he said the reason i don't is my standards are too high. and i think he's right.
sunkissed, into.your.arms, shifty_material...if the ugliest guy in school would be good enough, would you have a boyfriend? i say yes. no, wait. i say HELL YEAH. anyone can have a boyfriend. but just any guy isn't what we want...what we want is a guy that is good enough for us.
i think.
yes, there are nice guys out there. but there are also, i even know one, guys out there who i think would like to have a girlfriend, but everytime a girl comes to them, they screw it up. because guys usually aren't handy with girls. believe me.

(lekker bezig rood!)
I don't think I want a boyfriend right now. yea, maybe if there's really really nice guy asking me out, I would say yes.
and I think I was stupid myself for kissing the guy, 'cause I changed my standard for a second.

hey I'm the friend Suzi P was talking about in her first post, it's true that the first guy I ever liked, liked me to ;) I know I'm very lucky and I'd never thought that i would have a boyfriend so quicke. I mean, I whas 14 when I met him! and I whas alsow 14 when I first kissed him it whas the firts time we ware togetter as girl andboyfriend, becous I whas to chicken to ask him in real life xD (i send him a e-mail ) and when he whas leaving (the whole time I whas nervous like hell and diddn't know what to do) he realy sweet asked if he could get a kis. I ofcourse sad yes, but it whas real short, not with tongue or something like that, just a real sweet kiss what made me soo happy and worm inside I'll never forget that day ^^
the first kiss with tongue was just really weird. We both really diddn't know what to do but it whas still really nice, altough, now that we are boy and girlfriend for over 9 months, we are both much better in al that kissingstuff xD
but everything what suzi said is true, I never looked for a boyfriend, he just came to me ^^ and I know for shure, we will be touhgetter for a verry longe time when a boy really likes you, and you really like him, that kiss will be al right, meby theire won't be any fireworks, but trust me, they will come xD

that's so sweet!
i'm melting =)

yes, caity o. is cake, one of my 4 friends i talked about in my last post. into.my.arms, is another one-she's v.
caity is dyslectic. so that explains the little mistakes in it =P.
both me and v. felt awful after our sucky dates. selfesteem blown away, we felt....awful. now matter how much you'd like a boyfriend, don't ever drop your standards. really. you'll feel sorry and awful afterwards(i have had this for like, 2-3 times. it sucks)
(ugh i have got to stop thinking about D....bugger.)
anyways, i think that for everyone there is at least one person who's good enough. and not, you could lower them a little....if you're absolutely sure. but with me, everytime i did that i ended up getting hurt more...and blowing my selfesteem.
*sits down on couch with others, waiting for a good enough guy...then gets up and goes off to find one.(and maybe, just maybe it 'll turn out he was here all along, bugging me =P)*

I was 12 I think? It was to my boyfriend of a few months.. It was awkward! But I wouldn't take it back. I also wouldn't worry about when you get your first kiss, but I would hope that its with someone you love and trust!

hey guys, we all have great, funny, happy, silly stories to share

guys, all these 'terrible' first kiss stories are NOT comforting. =D

I'm sweet 16 and never been kissed.

don't worry!
I'm sure there is a nice/cute guy who thinks you are the one. so why give your first kiss away to a guy you do not really really love?

well, as caity says, if its with someone you like its always nice.
and, i think that what into.your.arms thinks...well...the first kiss, i think, will not be that great. you'll probably both be inexperienced, and if you just want the first kiss, try kissing some guy when going out. then, you've had the first kiss and move on to lots of better kisses. but. if youu want to have a nice first kiss, kiss a guy you really like. and who likes you. because otherwise it might just be akward and stuff. i think.
to continue with the D. story, today he asked me, am i emo? no i said. are you gothic? no i said. are you emo? no. are you gothic? no. this went on for a while, and eventually he asks, are you emo? if you say no now you have to be gothic. i said go ask my brother, he'll say i'm emo. then at the end of the class, i said hey you forgot to ask one. aren't you gonna ask if i'm alto(alternative)? oh. are you alto? he asked? no, i said. then we both walked out of the classroom.
earlier that day i should have had gym class( P.E. ), 2 hours in a row. but, like every week for the last month or so the teacher was sick so the class was cancelled. we had 2 hours with nothing to do. so we went to sit in a special classroom where you can sit if you don't have class, you have to be quiet and study there(but usually you chat with your friends softly while you listen to music on your ipod or mp3 or something with your books lying open in front of you). but i had to do some chemistry homework, so i went to get my books. this classroom has 2 ways in, and i went to get my bag(you also cant take your bag in with you there) at the wrong door. when i had gotten my books, i ran into D., he was studying there also at the time, like lots of kids from my gym class. he whispered suzi is crazy to me. i whispered thanks! back. (i'm always joking about that with friends, so i don't care at all. better crazy and happy than desperately trying to be normal and sad). when i got back to the table where i sat with an friend of mine and she said to her he'd said she was sweet(normally he wouldn't speak to her. just to...well...geeky, really. but no offense! lots of my friends, and maybe(i dunno) me, too are sorta geeky sometimes.and i am one of the only girls in class he pays attention to usually. )
anyways, when we were both doing chemistry he walked past and looked what we were doing. " oh la la, heavy stuff huh" he said. i answered, " what? chemistry?" "yes." he said. " erm, no. its easy " was my answer. and all the time, all my friend did was giggly and look weird(she does that. a lot. she's a little weird.and sometimes, very dumb. like the time she said i was getting very red when D. said i wanted to make out with him. i was like, ermmm, no? hell no? this was a while ago allready, start of the year, and i get red very quickly. so she made the most dumb remark possible, and she sometimes does that. but doesn't mean it that way, she just isn't very handy in that kind of stuff....but i do think she's nice^^)
weeellll....that was the D. story for today.
if you want me to continue those, just let me know^^ and if you want me to stop with them, the same. (<-- to shifty_material especially since this is after all her topic =P)
and everyone who's never been kissed, firstly sorry all my post are so ridiculously long, and secondly, no worries. it'll happen someday. don't listen to all the kids that pressure you-they should get a love life of their own.i think.