first kiss?

I was 14, and the guy was my 'bf'-ish. We barely knew each other. It was seriously gross, he'd had bad chapped lips for a while so his lip was split and he had carmex on them....so my first kiss tasted like dried blood and medicine cabinet-blegh!! :3 I didn't kiss anyone for another....5 years-wow I feel sheepish now. Anyway, the second guy I kissed, I ended up marrying(big mistake)-our first kiss was awkward and horrible. He doesn't even remember it!! But the THIRD person I've kissed(I'm divorced now), I'm engaged to. OUR first kiss was a movie kiss. We've known each other/been friends since we were 13, and all this time wanted to be together but were too shy to say so. When he finally kissed me.....I saw fireworks. I swear!

I was 14, and the guy was my 'bf'-ish. We barely knew each other. It was seriously gross, he'd had bad chapped lips for a while so his lip was split and he had carmex on them....so my first kiss tasted like dried blood and medicine cabinet-blegh!! :3 I didn't kiss anyone for another....5 years-wow I feel sheepish now. Anyway, the second guy I kissed, I ended up marrying(big mistake)-our first kiss was awkward and horrible. He doesn't even remember it!! But the THIRD person I've kissed(I'm divorced now), I'm engaged to. OUR first kiss was a movie kiss. We've known each other/been friends since we were 13, and all this time wanted to be together but were too shy to say so. When he finally kissed me.....I saw fireworks. I swear!

Well... I was 16 when I had my first kiss. I'm still with the guy today. It's been almost 4 years together. >.< Anyway... he and I had a couple of classes together in high school, so we'd been going out for maybe a week or two. I was a real prude because, well, I'd never even held hands with a boy until I met him! He and I were walking back to class from lunch and he stopped me just short of the door, he got really quiet and serious-looking. I asked him what he was doing, then he replied, "This," and he kissed me. It was just a small, closed-mouth kiss but it still made my heart race! I was wearing such an ugly outfit that day too. Baggy jeans, an oversized t-shirt and a torn sweater.

i'm 15, too and have never kissed. at my school there just arent any nice guys. either they're lame, or they see me as little sister of my brother. really. in my year, the guys just arent likeable enough to kiss. in one year higher, its the same as in my year. 2 years higher(so in 6th grade, i'm in 4th grade now) all the good guys are my big brothers friends. and in the lower grades its the same as in my year. but i don't want to rush it. if possible, i'd like what my best friend and her boyfriend have-he was the first guy she ever liked(okay so that part wont happen with me), and they both liked eachother, and to be honest i wouldn't be surprised if in ten years(or something) they'd get married. they are the perfect match to eachother. her first kiss was with him, and his first kiss was with her. and eventhough she told me later they both sucked at kissing, it was (according to her) still great because they were and still are in love. i hope i'll have something like that too someday. so i dont wanna rush^^ but sometimes i dont get the big deal. first times in things usually suck. first time at school, reading, falling, and lots of other things weren't as good as later times. so this first kiss..i think i'd like to get it from my boyfriend, then practice a lot to get better at it=P

aaw thats really sweet with your friend! i agree with you

My first kiss was in third grade, under water at the community pool. But my first "real" kiss was when I was 19 at a party on a dare!

I was 14 and it was in spin the bottle. Haha
But don't worry about it. Rather wait for the right person because a kiss is supposed to be special, not something you give away easily. Trust me, I wish I waited

I'm also 15 (16 in Feb) and I haven't had my first kiss either I'm also starting to get worried!

wow even more people sharing their experiences... thanks lauren, dont be worried! after reading what everyone has to say here i realised i wasnt the only one.. now i think it IS worth waiting for someone you actually like rather than just kissing any random, so i guess i'm not too bothered any more.. it'll happen one day! *fingers crossed that its soon!*

yay! i agree with you alyssa new year, new hope for the future!

Haha I haven't even been asked out!

me neither! "/

guys were too scared of me to ask me out, I was different. I didn't get asked out till I was 18 and at university, that guy was my first kiss too and we went out for a year and three months

Yeah, I don't mind not being asked out...like I said, I have better things to think about and care about...also it's the first year of high school. What would you even do?

i've never been asked out either, too. well i was asked to come to a tiny festival with my brother & his friends(it was his friends idea) but i don't think that counts. i asked a guy i really liked to go to a movie with me a couple months ago, and we both had to bring friends(parents wanted us to -.-) i really liked him, was totally in love, and was SO happy when he said yes to going to a movie....but all my friends couldn't come, and he unexpectedly didn't know that and did bring a friend. and the date itself? i was totally and fully bored to death. his bus(coach)didn't come so i had to walk trough town alone for an hour. then when he showed up, he didn't have anything to talk about except school. at all. well, he said something about some vid he and his friend were making, but that sounded just...really really lame, childish, dumb and unoriginal. i was dead bored. in fact, i was so very bored that afterwards i realized the part walking trough town, listening to music alone was more fun then the date itself! and while on the date, i thought how the date would've been more fun if D.(i'm not saying his real name.), a guy who teases me at school would have been there. because then i would've had something to do. (tease him right back, as i allways do).
if you want to know what the story with D. is, read this. if not, don't.
he's my age, taller, well-built(plays soccer or something i think) and in my class(v,if you read this, you know who it is.)
at the start of my year, he said, in the lessons, i'm in love with suzi. i was like, oh. its the " lets fake liking suzi so she is embarrassed and i become more popular" thing i experienced in 2 grade.(only then it was 2 guys really overdoing it >.<). however, he did give me a lot more attention than most other girls in my class. he was always ready to comment on me, for example. one day I'd gotten my hair cut. i didn't like it-the haircutter hadn't cut it right(my instructions were bad too, but anyways) so he said, as the first person that day who saw it without me telling them, hey suzi have you gotten your hair cut? yes, i said. well, it looks awful was his answer. so i did that right back, so does yours. we both laughed i think. i'm used to that stuff(older brother. all guys are like that with each other it appears, i'm used to it.) so that's a typical conversatipon between us. i thought he was just faking liking me, but some other friends of mine were like, aww he's in love with you! (but those are mostly my dumb socially unhandy friends =P). anyways, i recently painted my hair with paint that flushes out of my hair slowly. its black now, or actually darkbrown now. ) so when i came to school, first hour of class i had with him, he said he liked my hair. that he liked how it matched my eyes. i was sarcastic, and like, oh wow. i'm so happy with that(very sarcastically, since i was and still am not sure whether or not he's faking liking me) and another guy from my class said he didn't have a chance. after that, D. asked me when the black lipstick would come, and the black nailpolish, and if i was a Gothic, he also noticed and joked about the bloodred nailpolish i wore that day.
i'm very confused now. because of my brother, i know most guys hate saying they like you, even if they are your family. if they like like you, are in love with you, it becomes harder. because nobody wants to be rejected. so they'd rather get your attention by teasing you and perhaps becoming friends with you then by telling you they like you sometimes(i had this with an exchange student myself once). now, i'm real confused...is he faking it, or not?i really have no idea. the weirdest part is, if he'd be nice, he would have a chance. i actually kinda like the conversations-they're a nice distraction from all the boring classes. and, weirdest of all weird thing, i think he's just a fundamentally nice guy. and i might even be starting to like him. (erm wtf?) so that's the story behind D.
(this isn't actually on topic shifty_material15, sorry!)
weird? yes. confusing? hell yes. if you know he irl, i probably won't talk to you about this. well, i would with you, v. but not really with others=P(okay with some others.)
good night everybody!