Boy problems :/ Help?

As horrible as this seems you just have to come out and tell him. I'm like you, shy and it is very hard to tell people. This guy I used to fancy my mate got his number and I text him telling him I liked him, not so direct as face-to-face but fairly direct.

Unluckily we didn't get together for other reasons. I would say try and befriend him but you don't have much time left. So your only option would be to talk to him one day and kind of slip it in the conversation, unless you can think of a better way to tell him you like him.

I was terribly shy (I'm not now, I'm a Burlesque dancer, so i can't be, lol)

I went to college with this guy I really liked, he liked me, but he didn't know i liked him. What i did was got a friend of mine (most of my friend's at the time were boy's) to get his best mate's number, then told him that i liked his mate and here was my number for him to text me. We ended up together for 3 years.

Hope that helps =]

Hi Eve! I didnt see you on the board lately!Gde si devojko?
I can only say the same thing as the girls.You must win over your shyness and go talk to him!Maybe you dont even need to tell him directly that you like him,just ask him out for coffee after school, or ask for his phone number.That should encourage him and maybe he will make the first step.If not,then you can say to him directly that you like him.
Nadam se da si me razumela!

We had the same shyness problem with my "husband",when we met.
We knew each other since kids,we went to the same zitra class.But after a while we started being friends for a year including other five friends.And we started to like each other,but we where too shy to tell.
Every weekend we went to the same place with our friends and every time when we said goodbye on the end of the night,we kisses.But next day it was like nothing ever happened.And this went on for 9 months (!)

And then one weekend when he arrived to the place where we hang out,he just sat next to me,kissed me and we hold our hands all night.And since then where together for 5 years now.
I asked him a few times what made him be so brave and come to me,but the answer is always "I have no idea,I was sick of waiting for the end of the night to get my kiss."

I would just try to talk to him, just be friendly, maybe subtly show him you like him, but don't just go out and say it! If he's as shy as you say he is it might scare him off! (hehe) I've never been shy but I've never been forward either. Maybe there's a difference in the way we all approach guys (obviously lol) but that's what I would do if I was in your situation! Hope that helps!
~Becks ♥

try to find out if he likes you (use friends and other people to do so) and be nice to him. and talk to him! things to talk about are at the bottom of the post. so its not like "i've never talked to you before but i like you" that might scare him off. then, tell him. really. that's the only way. decide if he's worth the risk of telling, and if he is worth the risk, tell him. its really hard, but its also the best way. i'd try to get him alone somewhere and tell him^^ and hope very hard he likes you to! if you need something to talk about, use things you share. like chemistry, you both like that. you go to the same schooll, you can talk about that. music's always good i think.
hope this helps xx

hello girls. ^_^
i totaly forgot about this. I'm very busy with school. :S

But... i read all your comments and i really like them all!
They all helped me, so... I decided to just be relaxed and talk to him about ordinary stuff. What grade did he get from geography, and stuff like that. I wont be planning a week just to approach him, i will do it in a moment. That way, i wont be very nervous. haha

I'm very thankful for your advices. ^__^ Thanks sooo much! ♥

Violleta..skužila sam. Hvala ti puno! I ovo sa tvojim ''mužem'' je jako romantično... *.*

Hvala Eve! Drzim ti fige da sve uspije.Javi nap ako ima ista novo!

I might be a bit late on this one but why not ask him for help on a project that relates to something you both have in common? You both like chemistry so (an a very cliched example) you could ask him for help with something you're doing that's chemistry related, or with studying for an exam. This way, you complement him, give him a reason to think you like him and also arrange for the two of you to spend more time together, putting off your "deadline" for making a move.

I have used this trick before - I asked my boyfriend for help planning a group holiday and we got together on that holiday, a year and a half ago. We're now living together.

But most of all be yourself and I'm sure he won't be able to resist!

This is such a nice post, and made me smile.

I left school 18 years ago, and a couple of weeks ago, I had an email from a guy that was in my class. He told me he had the biggest crush ever on me at school and he had never quite got over that crush... awwww..... that was so cute, I had to let him down as I have a boyfriend but we have become friends again.

Eve, do not worry, there is plenty of time and hey, who knows, in 18 years time, you could get a message from him telling you that he always had a crush on you. =-)

Take care

K/x

naravno. ne moraš se brinuti.



Omg! Thats such a good idea! I'm sure i will do something like that!. ^__^



Kimmi.. Really? :O aww.. so cutee.. :3

Aww how lovely!!
I'm glad that all our advice helped you. Some people are different perspectives and appraoches to things in life, so as long as you are comfortable with work you are doing then good for it!!

yeah. I agree. ^__^
btw. today, I approached to The Guy. :__D
Wow. I was soo nervous. But my friend made me to face him.
So.. I started to talk about chemistry and biology (nerd talks x'D).
And he told me he got C from test, and we were laughing, and thats strange. Coz he never laughs. :S
Soo.. I will try to talk to him tomorow.

well done Eve ((hugs))

Just be yourself and I'm sure he will love the person you are xxxxx

It's weird to see someone else called Eve First other person I've seen.