will she be mean?

I have this friend who started to tease me a lot when I made a big decision that she didnt agree with. it wasnt her buisness anyway.

she would keep bringing it up when ever she could.


i invited her to y party on the 16th

i dont know if she will start saying things

its to late to uninvite her shees being alright recently but sometimes she has a quiet spell like this and just starts all over again Happy

i dont know what to do she can be violent and very hurtful she has made me cry on countless occasions Happy

i cant break friends with her because its better to have her as your friend then your enemy...

advice?

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6 replies since 11th July 2011 • Last reply 11th July 2011

Reply #1:

She doesnt sound like a very nice person in my opinion and I've had friends like this and ended cutting them out and not being friends with them and it was for the better but this is up to you.

If having her at your party makes you feel uncomfortable, try and have a chat with her and ask her why shes being the way she is. If she does come and it she starts being rude, kick her out, it is your party you decide what goes.

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Reply #2:

yeah i will make sure i talk to her

might have to get others to chuck her out cuz my friends dont like her and i cant say no to people...

(kind of a pushover...

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Reply #3:

Don't let someone boss you around and make you feel bad. For some people, that gives them a sense of power.

I'd ditch your crappy friend and not worry about her. She can say whatever she wants whether or not it's true, but spreading rumors and gossip never makes anyone friends.

If all she does is make you feel uncomfortable, uninvite her so you won't have to worry about kicking her out later.

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It seems to me that she is jealous of you, maybe something you own or some aspect of your life that she does not have.
You shouldn’t keep someone as a “friend” because you fear them as an enemy. However, if you feel that she is deserving of forgiveness and is capable of changing then I would say give her a chance but don’t let her continue to be a repeat offender.

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Reply #5:

I agree with Sellie. You shouldn't keep her as friend because you fear her. But, if you truly like her and want to give her another chance, I say talk to her and open up about exactly how you feel. She might not entirely know the extent of the pain she brings you and needs to know. If she isn't forgiving or sorry, then she probably never will be. If that is the case, I think she doesn't deserve your kindness and friendship.

I am someone who has and had many friends. Many different types of friends, whom I have loved all the same. I used to have this notion that EVERYONE is good, deep down inside. That if you just give them a chance and really try to get to know them, you find out that there are just like you, a normal human being with feelings and emotions and aspirations. Sadly, being the open, caring person I am.. I have come to learn how incredibly wrong I was. As much as I hate to say it. Now, I literally only have a handful of friends I actually talk to frequently and hang out with. and to be completely truthful I am more happy this way ^_^

good luck with everything<3

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Reply #6:

yeah...

today something wonderfull happened her me and my giant group of friends had fun with jade girl also coming to partys camera.

and she apollogised!!!

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