He got my name tattooed >.<

i have nothing againt name tattoos, (my partner has an ambigram of my name and our daughters name in one, and i have an ambigram of my daughters name on my wrist) BUT to do it without your permission and as a way to get you back is just wrong in my opinion. Maybe it woldn't be half as bad if he's suggested it at other time rather than when yo'd had a fight/broken up!! i'd be really pissed off if i was you, but it depends if you still love/want him whether you should get back together. all i'dsay is if you do make sure you make it clear it's NOT because off the tattoo!

Thank you ladies for not thinking that I'm crazy for being creeped out, I feel so much better now that I have read your replies, You all were so much help. Now that I have calmed down a bit I'm doing better, I was pretty scared there for a while. I talked to him about it, well I guess it was more like I fought with him about it and now I very seriously doubt he will stalk me or anything but I'm still being careful. It's going to be super hard because (yes I know I'm only 21) I was supposed to marry him *sigh* And now he is offering to go get the tat covered up HAHA.

Mi.ezekatze- Oh yeah it's totally real. I so agree, men that show off their love for their children are sexy! I'm trying hard to see the funny side, and I guess I'm starting to because it's just so ridiculous, It's not even in a spot that he can hide when he starts dating again unless he wears a bracelet lol.

Rachie- lol the first thing I did was go running to my security guard step dad and asked him how to get a restraining order if I end up needing it. This girl doesn't take chances, and I ALWAYS have my trusty pepper spray ha.

Pink Weeds- Damn that sucks for your ex friend, people make such silly choices in life. LOL if he tells people that I died, when I really do die I'm gonna haunt the shit out of him for it.

Rawr Rawr- I actually wouldn't have minded if he did something like what you and your bf want to do. I always told him that we could get something small that matches or maybe I could design him somthing to symbolize me since I love to draw.

Abbyka- you sound like my mom! She tells me I'm ruining my body whenever I get a tattoo or piercing and she has a tattoo herself with my initials on it.

Luna- My previous ex's dad had a girls name covered up with a black rose, I thought it was a pretty fitting way to cover it. I know how you feel, I kinda feel like this is going to keep him from getting over me as fast as he probably would have but thats his bad though.

Jessi & Autonomous- I thought the same thing. What self respecting tattoo artist would actually do that, but then I remembered the shop next door to him does cheap 20$ tattoos so I doubt they cared what the tat was as long as they got paid. Those 10$ piercing 20$ tat places always seemed sketchy to me, I have never paid under 40$ for a piercing.

Good thing you have a big, tough daddy! I do too... it's probably the only reason I'm still alive, to be honest. (Won't go into details, but similar situation as this.) He will def. know what to do, so if he tells you to do something that you think is overly-protective, do it anyway!!!

Eurgh no, I'd be freaked out. I wouldn't want anyone to get my name tattooed on them, no matter how long I'd been with them. Like other people have said, symbols aren't too bad, but names are different.

Yeah, he probably should get it covered up haha. It's not nice to date someone who has another girl's name on him.

my boyfriend got my face tatooed on him, i think that beats everyone lol, so far everything seems good and we are planning a wedding in 2 years, i was a little scared when he first got it, i didn't want him regretting it, but he really likes it and so do i