my sister is really a b*tch
michelle G.
My sister has come home for a town reunion we call come home year.
We really don't talk because I can't stand her, at all. I can say I hate her, really, you think its harsh, you try going somewhere with a woman who is rude to everyone,
she yells at wait staff,
ignores her dautghter,
lies to her daughter about her smoking, drinking parting,
she is really mean to the neighbourhood kids(she yelled at them because they were jumping our fence-come on, you did it when you were a kid.)
She takes my car without telling me,
sleeps all day here and doesn't help out at all(my mom has lupis)-would it kill you to do a load of laundry? put dishes away...
Bitches and moans about everything
I havn't like her since I was 16 and she told everyone I was a lesibian who sleeps in a dog house(after I stood up for here when she got caught having oral sex in the woods)
yeah my sister was one of those teenage girls who wanted to be so popular that she would bully other girls and sleep with everyone so she could be part of the in crowd.
I just really can't stand her bitcheness, I told her to get her ass outta bed and take her daughter to her swimming lesson. Its not going to kill her. It may kill our mother who suffers in the cold with her lupis. But she gets up a 7am every morning to take her swimming.
I just got home from work and is she asks for my van, I'm going to be like hell no, take a bleeding cab.
Heck if she takes my van without asking me, I will go ninja on her ass.
Look in your owners manual and locate where your fuel pump fuse is. If you pull it out every time you get out of the car, she won't be able to start it. Even if she steals your keys when you're not looking. Just don't let her know what you're doing, of course! I'm' pretty sure that will work anyway.
Otherwise, sounds like she's got a bad case of insecurity. Every time she makes you mad enough to slap her, just think of how she's mentally unstable. I know it's tough, but maybe if you simply walked up to her and said..."I know we don't get along, but you're my sister and I love you." (cause you know you do...even though you hate her guts)maybe she'd calm down enough to get you through the week. Maybe she's so upset with herself, and her "crappy" life and she hates everything in her world so she acts like she does because of it. Maybe if you try to diffuse the tension by acting like you love her, she might calm down enough to make this week not so horrible. I'm not saying be nice to her because she needs it, I'm saying try being nice so she'll leave you alone! lol Know what I mean?
Example: The dishes are dirty
You: Hey girl! Why don't you come help me wash these dishes? Give us a chance to talk. What's up with you? I LOVE that skirt. etc
Her: Damn, I don't want to do the dish...what? My skirt? Yeah, got it on sale.
Shoot, I don't know, it's worth a try anyways! Good luck!
Creativemind
OMG hun! Is she even from the same gene pool as you or is she adopted, cuz she is nothing like you. It's bad when you say you hate your own sister and I'm sure there are lots of people who a relative they can't stand. Sometimes I can't stand my sister, she's the selfish type because she was treated differently from the rest of us by our dad. He says he didn't do it, but we know better, We, of all people, could see it and my mom says the same thing. I talk to her on a regular basis, just so long as she doesn't ask me for a favor or anything because she won't return it. I have no problem telling her no and why, and luckily we live 3 hours apart anyway so no worries.
But I don't know what to say about your sister. She sounds worse than an enemy and if she's like that when she's not visiting, just keep your distance because I seriously don't think she will want have a nice conversation with you or anybody else about anything. Nobody is gonna change from being the way they've been all or most of their life just because. Just bear it until she leaves and try not to kill her.
I don't know how you could stand her. I mean She sounds like someone I would never like to meet! I say you need to get a little pay back.....not saying it's a good thing to do but..it always feels better. Or you could try to be nice to her whatever works for you.<3
I know, she has no self esteem
blufairy
some people are just crap and even if you are nice they still are crap my oldest step daughter is alot like your sister she will be nice for a while and you think wow she is starting to grow up then she just craps all over you {decided she was going to date my oldest son now he has to stay at his dads}and thats just one thing she also tried to put Lysol in my drink last year then dumped it over the fence saying she changed her mind she did it because she was sleeping with a 23 yr old man and i found out she was 13 and sneaking out of our house at night he is now on ten years probation so no amount of counseling or love is going to change this girl and maybe your sister is just a butthole too some people just are and all the rest of us just have to endure them till they go away i got 2 more years with mine then she can get out and believe me when she leaves she is not coming back
dating your son, ummm like ewww girl, he is almost related to you. kinda by marriage
Hdoddles
The thing is siblings are a real pain , people expect girls to be less of a problem but theyre not , sometimes people just think the sun shines out there backside and there so far up there own ass they need a ladder to climb down, i feel so sorry for her daughter and your mother ! being used like that is just unfair and if she cant care for her kids she doesnt deserve to have them. Her little girl will end up messed up if nothing is done .
yeah, she already knows not to press issues with her mom
she has left today to go back home
Lolly.Bot
God that really sucks, no wonder why you haven't spoken to her in years. Unfortunatly there's not a lot you can do to change her, if she has been this way all her life doubts are that she'll change now and if she does it will be in her own time.
I really feel for you, you can't choose your family!!
I know, shame huh
@Blufairy - So she tried to kill you? Her ass would have been sent off to boarding or charter school. That's really dangerous.
But Michelle your sister kind of sounds like my cousin. She disregards anyone's feelings but her own. She is an alcoholic, and proud of it...beats me as to why. She freeloads off anyone she can. Currently she is at her boyfriend's house. She use to live with her brother (my other cousin, which I am close too) and she didn't work, wouldn't clean and didn't bother looking for a job. There was no drinking in the house, of course she didn't listen.
She asked to stay with me once and I said hell no. I'm not stupid, I know how situations like that turn out.
It's really sad because we use to be close. (I'm not sure if you and your sister were ever close?)
For her birthday, I asked her if she wanted to come over and watch a movie and cook dinner, like a girls night in. It wasn't even her birthday mind you, it was like a week after her birthday and she said only if there is alcohol. :/
I don't drink so obviously that's a no.
I think there is always that one person in families...the bad apples if you want to call it that.
no, we were never close. I never found her intellegent enough to hang out with, I hate it when people dum themselves down
Oh gosh she's one of THOSE types!! I don't think it's intelligence level as such that bothers you. You could appreciate someone that was (without sounding like a bitch) genuinly less intelligent then yourself. It's the fact that she's trying to be something that she's not, there's no need for that, why play dumb if you're not??
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