why parents need to pay attention when their kids talk to them.

i said her[mum] 'in june can we (underlined, WE) go to holland for a weekend for my next birthday, and she said yup.
i did ask her not to put on sptc as it my birthday and i have a right to do m what i want, so she said her. and like now she said , oh i've told P about and she is interested' and im going ' MUM WHEN I SAY NO SPTC THAT INCLUDES P' and she said ' oh well i told her now' like that settles it.

i dont mind P herself but her son A , is an idiot. and it will ruin it for me then. and then i said but i wanted us just be a 2some. ( i sound like im 2!) and said 'well shes inteeresyed now' . and she wants to spend some of our summer with them, no way mother. and apparently A likes me, yeah in your dreams, your so controlling and idiotic, i hate you

need advice, otherwise i wont go to holland and be a stroppy cow for alltime.

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10 replies since 10th August 2009 • Last reply 10th August 2009

Reply #1:

what does sptc stand for? Other than not being sure about that bit I do get the gist of whats happened and can understand why you're not happy. Have you tried explaining to your mum that this was really important to you and was something you wanted to do, just you and her for your birthday?
I also had a thought - don't know if this is practical but could you arrange to stay a couple of days longer so part of the trip is just you and your mum but also part of it is with the other person and their son. That way your mum doesn't have to go back to this other person and try and uninvite them. Its not ideal and your mum should have spoken to you before inviting someone else along but it could be a bit of a compromise.

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Reply #2:

I have a feeling the moms may want their childern to go together, just tell your mom straight out

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Reply #3:

yes just tell your mother straight up. she wont respect you if you dont voice your opinion

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Reply #4:

rox is right

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i did what you all said and told her. she was going... ' if he annoys you hes only doing it to impress' and ' ok, then'. so we'll be going as a twosome, as long as she doesnt bring it up anymore i think it will forgotten, but trip is undecided because of im going to eygept in april, germany with the school in may and holland in june? sptc stands for single parent travel club.(my dads dead)

Thank you, you have all helped and saying itt straight out has (sort of) solved it. a big cybercookie for you all x

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Reply #6:

thats great

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Reply #7:

Why id love a cookie!!! lol thats wounderful

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Reply #8:

I'm glad it seems to be sorted Happy Love my cookie.

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Reply #9:

I am happy too, cookies are great

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Reply #10:

Thank you all, cookies are being sent(and being added to CO+K!) but i have a mocking mother. constantly its all 'why dont you like him???' which in a way is good, but afer the truth was told its all good, love you all xxx

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