i don't know what to do....

I'm surprisingly ok!! Not sure why though.... should know in 4 working days the results...then we'll go from there.

Hope it all turns out well then

cheers Rawr Rawr!

So she said yesterday there was a mix up with the courier with the results arriving today...we didn't believe her so she said she rang them and they told her over the phone that it is Ben's kid. ben asked her for the name of the company she used so he could ring them. I googled them and got the number that she said she's rang and they confirmed the courier mix up. So looks more likely now that she's not actually lying about the kid being his as we're getting results on Monday anyway

Ok, so the company sent the results via Royal Mail instead of courier and she got them this morning. She met ben on his way to work and gave him the results. He is the dad.
I'm gutted to be honest, but apart from that i dont know how i feel about it. My Fiance has another kid. My Daughter has a half sister. And this woman is now in our lives for good.
Luckily Ben's mum has just taken my daughter as i have a job interview today...don't wanna be getting ratty with her why i figure out my head. But now i've got to go and do an interview in 2 hours with this in my head!
AAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

I am so sorry. That can be a real blow to the mind finding out something like that. Try not to go into it with negative feelings. My brother found out he had another (grown son) a couple years ago and it took a toll on his other two sons (the eldest had questioned his paternity since he was a teenager). My brother’s family really went through a whirl-wind of ups and downs as a but my nephew has been a blessing to their family.

And good luck on your job interview today! I know that's been a real struggle with you as well so I hope you get it!

Whoa I hope you where able to clear your mind before your interview! I would be distraught. I wish you and your family some calm in this storm ♥

I'm really sorry that this was the outcome =

Good luck with everything

aww hon>hug.

Well we decided to go and meet her today, not with Ben as her "dad" but just on the park. Wasn't too bad, a little wierd as she looks so much like him. Some kid on the park asked if her and my daughter were sisters :/
Ben overheard Paige (the kid) saying to her mum she wishes Pepper was her sister rather than Holly (her half sister) which was bit mad! It's like she could feel a connection or something... :/
Then she was asking if Pepper had a sister.
The kids got on great and was quite cute and a bit sad seeing them together playing as Pepper would love a sister.
So at the moment everyone's ok, think it was quite mad for Ben to get his head around though. Doesn't help that his mum is being really arsey with him over his decisions. She should be supporting him not making arguments with him!!

At least everything's going okay so far. Hopefully she doesn't cause any more problems for you

Me too, but on the plus side i got myself a job today!

thats great, congrats.

Its great the two girls got along. It will all work out in the end. How are you going about visitation? slowly, like play dates with pepper in the park? Just to get to know her