MEN!

Haha my boyfriend's ALWAYS drunk! Our typical bed routine is that we stay up till 4am or so, then if we're with someone else I'll go to bed and he'll show up a few hours later, and if it's just us I'll go to sleep while he sits up, drinking more and playing video games. I don't mind too much, but it's nice occasionally for us to go to sleep at the same time.

Poor Courtney....

yay... KK... Mario Kart rocks... I was playing Rachet and Clank and The last guy on the playstation 3 and after this I was playing bowling in the Playstation Home...hehe... these area is so crazy.. There are a lot of boys who want to flirt there..It´s crazy when you trying to play there with a female avatar... so I made me also a male avatar to play incognito ^^hehe

Well,don´t know what you can do..maybe you both should try to play without Chaz one day and a game you both like..

But I understand the problem..sometimes I wish my bf would have more time to talk about Problems,to lie just on the couch and talk about life and just everything in this world... I also wish that we could just watch a Film together without doing other things while we are watching...
sometimes we are in a room together and I feel like we are miles away ..and apart..
Maybe it´s a female Problem..my bf can´t understand me..he always says that we girls think to much about things and sometimes want to much that we already have..
We have no Problems together..we are like best friends..He don´t go out without me to make Party and drink,and he never do something bad... He is so nice and it´s just everything fine...
So Why is this sometimes not enough???
That´s crazy..!!!
Maybe it´s right we think to much about things...

I just don´t know...

you understand what I´m trying to say..?!

I get you. But I don't think complacency is always the best thing in a relationship.

I mean, I love going out with Tim and seeing his friends cause they're all amazing. But I also love having the night in, watching The Wire and falling asleep with him. Really I'm just being fussy here, because it's not a problem, just like last night I could really have liked that but Chaz showed up =P

..hehe..okay...I get it ^^
and by the way I think its no problem..I don´t think its bad to be fussy sometimes.. I´m sometimes fussy too.. But I hate when I´m like that... ^^*g*

I know =P I always feel like I just need something to whine about. But then I'm grateful that it's only irrelevant things, so whenever me and Tim have an argument about nothing, we're always much happier after.

^^ hehe me too... I know that sounds crazy but to be angry about irrelevant things and to get along with someone again is sometimes really good and makes me feel so much better after...

Sometimes when we argue about something we must laugh about it while we were arguing because we realize that its so stupid... to argue about it ^^

Those things remind me of not seeing everything so serious in life.
In those Moments we look at each other an know that everything is fine in our relationship ^^

argueing is good, its communication. Communication is a huge part. I just wish my bf would open up

The problem is I'm rubbish with arguing, so he always wins. And he's not swayed by my crying so normally us arguing is him yelling at me.

oO Poor michelle.. Don´t know..maybe he needs time..

When I was younger I wasn´t able to talk about everything in life.. I had to learn this step by step...
Now I just can´t stop doing it ^^ *g*

And when I was 20 I started talking about Problems with other Persons..
But still have some Problems to talk with some kind of people...
Guys need much more time I think...sometimes they think that its not important to talk about some things at all...

I think thats true

Poor KK.. hugs.. sorry I haven´t read your comment til now.. some kind of bug here on co+k sometimes don´t show me some comments.. Maybe it was because we post in the same minute or something like that oO

Well I think maybe you have to think more about your arguing before that (if it´s possible) or maybe write a plan.. It´s hard to show a boyfriend your way of seeing things when you running out of arguments girl *g* hihi
But I have the same Problem sometimes especially when I want to argue about stupid things.. But when I realize that its dumb to argue about it and that he is right I sometimes try to come across as if I wanted to make fun with the whole arguing :-P *g*
Because I always feel really ashamed of myself then ^^
Deep inside I always know it when I say stupid things ..I think it´s funny that I can´t stop sometimes.. ^^

I´m glad that Fred (that´s the name of my bf) never yell at me.. he is more a quiet guy and stop talking with me then..
But that´s also very annoying oO

yeah Chad just walks away...it just makes me madder.

We had an argument today, he didn't want to go to the drugstore with me, and instead of telling me he was tired and didn't feel like going he sulked. That pissed me off, I told him he needs to talk about how he is feeling.

He told me that he feels like I am smothering him, and I was like we live together. and I never though wanting to hang out with a person was smothering.

I am just cracking it up to the fact that he never had a long relationship before me.

oO

..I don´t know.. Maybe he is only stressed from all the christmas-New-Year-Whatever-Stress ;)


*hugs*

we had a talk, we worked it out

I can imagine it being a bit overwhelming the first time you live with someone you're in a relationship with. I'm still looking forward to it though, if I have that experience in the future.

I'm glad you and Chad worked everything out